[Anamit]

60 Things You Should NEVER TELL PEOPLE

Not everything in life needs to be shared. Protecting your privacy gives you peace of mind, emotional strength, and personal security. Here are 60 things you should keep to yourself:


Money and Finances

1. How much money you have or make
   
   
2. The amount of money you spend on non-essentials
   
   
3. Your detailed financial struggles
   
   
4. Your extravagant purchases to those struggling financially
   
   
5. Your social status to impress others
   
   
6. The amount of debt you have
   
   
7. Your family’s wealth or lack of it
   

Weaknesses and Insecurities

1. Your biggest weaknesses
   
   
2. Your insecurities to those who might use them against you
   
   
3. Your biggest doubts about yourself to negative people
   
   
4. Your fears to those who don’t care
   
   
5. Your jealousy disguised as advice
   
   
6. Negative thoughts about yourself
   

Goals and Plans

1. Your long-term goals to small-minded people
   
   
2. Your next move before you make it
   
   
3. Your exact future plans before they happen
   
   
4. Your big ideas to small thinkers
   
   
5. Your plans for quitting before it’s time
   

Relationships and Family

1. Your family’s private issues
   
   
2. Your relationship problems to outsiders
   
   
3. Every argument you have with your partner
   
   
4. Your past relationships to your current partner in excess
   
   
5. Your family drama to your coworkers
   
   
6. How much you dislike your family members
   
   
7. Your love life details on social media
   

Past and Regrets

1. Your past mistakes in too much detail
   
   
2. Your past failures in a self-pitying way
   
   
3. Your regrets in a way that keeps you stuck
   
   
4. Your darkest thoughts (unless to a trusted person)
   
   
5. Your childhood trauma to people who haven’t earned your trust
   

Work and Career

1. What you hate about your job (unless you’re changing it)
   
   
2. What you think about your boss (unless you’re quitting)
   
   
3. How much you dislike someone at work
   
   
4. How you manipulated a situation to your advantage
   
   
5. Your fears about competition in business
   

Secrets and Trust

1. Your passwords or security details
   
   
2. The secrets of others
   
   
3. Your private conversations with someone else
   
   
4. Your plans for revenge (just move on)
   
   
5. Every good deed if it’s only for validation
   

Health and Struggles

1. Your detailed health issues to everyone
   
   
2. Your emotional breakdowns to the wrong people
   
   
3. Your personal struggles to those who don’t support you
   
   
4. Your deepest ambitions to people who don’t believe in you
   

Opinions and Judgments

1. Your political views in the wrong crowd
   
   
2. Your religious beliefs if they cause unnecessary conflict
   
   
3. How much better you think you are than others
   
   
4. The mistakes of others (unless necessary)
   
   
5. What you think someone else should do with their life
   
   
6. The compliments you don’t mean
   

Ego and Recognition

1. How much you sacrificed (true giving is silent)
   
   
2. Your good deeds if they’re done for validation
   
   
3. The worst things you’ve ever done
   
   
4. The worst thing someone has said about you
   
   
5. Your personal grudges to new acquaintances
   
   
6. How much envy you have for someone
   

Extra Caution

1. Your detailed financial struggles (worth repeating)
   
   
2. Your secrets to someone who gossips
   
   
3. Your personal failures to harsh judges
   
   
4. What you wish you said in an argument (let it go)
   

👉 Privacy is power. The less you share, the more control you have over your life.