Vậy thì bà con ơi, hãy làm phước ngó lơ cho chị tuyết vân nhà này đi, coi như chị ấy tàng hình...cứ để cho chị ấy muốn nói gì nói...Mình cứ xem những gì chi ấy post trong đây là lời viết của một kẻ khùng khuyết não và nên tội nghiệp cho sự khiếm khuyết ấy của chị là được rồi....Tui thấy bà con càng nói thì chị ấy càng nhảy dựng lên như bị dội nước sôi vào háng rồi lại tiếp tục blah..blah...chứ chị không chịu nghĩ ngơi để tự suy nghĩ lại đâu....Bà con thương tình thì bỏ lơ, làm ngơ đừng ngó tới bài viết của chị ấy cũng như bài nào mà bà con nghi ngờ hay nghĩ là của tinhlang aka Bella luôn đi nha!

You ignore me because I talk to you nicely

If I am bad to you, then you have all the excuses to use dirty words to talk to me

I just have to say what I am thinking my dear

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I think if she stops using dirty words, they will stop bothering her

Why don't you ask her to try? She might listen to you?
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TV,

Tinhlang mới dùng những chữ khó nghe gần đây thôi.  Trước đây, cô ấy nói chuyện rất dịu dàng.  

Don't blame the victims of cyber bullies.  Do you know how unhappy the victims are?  Do you understand their pain?

Stop acting superior, will you?

LTP
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Cảm ơn anh LTP,

Nhưng tốt nhất là anh đừng nói lời tốt để bênh vực cho Lan nữa....Vì Lan không muốn thấy anh bị người ta vì ghét Lan rồi bu vô kiếm chuyện với anh như bên VF nữa đó...Rất cảm ơn với tấm lòng ưu ái mà anh đã dành cho Lan từ bao năm qua...Nhưng Lan nghĩ anh nên giữ khoảng cách "tránh xa" Lan như anh BaEch thì hay hơn đó anh!

(2019-12-07, 05:19 PM)tuyetvan Wrote: You ignore me because I talk to you nicely

If I am bad to you, then you have all the excuses to use dirty words to talk to me

I just have to say what I am thinking my dear

lại tự hoang tưởng nằm mơ giữa ban ngày nữa rồi hả mụ khùng tuyệt vận???

(2019-12-07, 05:08 PM)tuyetvan Wrote: I just ask her not to use dirty words, what's wrong with that?

I agree with you not to say degrading and dirty words, are you happy with it?

You can ask someone not to say or to do something, if those words or action were directed at you and you were affected and or hurt by it

You can ask someone not to say or to do something out of kindness if they are your friends/family

But ask and ask repeatedly when someone is not asking for it or is not wanting it, then your action becomes bully and you become an attacker. That is, "what is wrong with that".

(2019-12-07, 05:08 PM)tuyetvan Wrote: I just ask her not to use dirty words, what's wrong with that?

I agree with you not to say degrading and dirty words, are you happy with it?

Tinhlang can use any kind of weapons to protect herself.  

Trước đây cô ấy không hề chửi tục, nhưng họ tiếp tục bully cô ấy.

Nếu TV khuyên được họ không ức hiếp tinhlang nữa, lập tức tinhlang sẽ không dùng dirty words.

You still haven't answered my questions

What's wrong when asking her not to say dirty words?


How do you know it wouldn't affect other people?

(2019-12-07, 05:20 PM)Lan Wrote: [quote pid='186890' dateline='1575755971']



I think if she stops using dirty words, they will stop bothering her

Why don't you ask her to try? She might listen to you?

TV,

Tinhlang mới dùng những chữ khó nghe gần đây thôi.  Trước đây, cô ấy nói chuyện rất dịu dàng.  

Don't blame the victims of cyber bullies.  Do you know how unhappy the victims are?  Do you understand their pain?

Stop acting superior, will you?

LTP
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Cảm ơn anh LTP,

Nhưng tốt nhất là anh đừng nói lời tốt để bênh vực cho Lan nữa....Vì Lan không muốn thấy anh bị người ta vì ghét Lan rồi bu vô kiếm chuyện với anh như bên VF nữa đó...Rất cảm ơn với tấm lòng ưu ái mà anh đã dành cho Lan từ bao năm qua...Nhưng Lan nghĩ anh nên giữ khoảng cách "tránh xa" Lan như anh BaEch thì hay hơn đó anh!
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Không sao, Lan ạ.

Cái vô lý là tại sao TV trách nạn nhân, trong khi Kinh Thánh của TV dạy hãy bênh vực người yếu thể cô?

À, VietBest có cho phép chửi tục nhụy ở VF không Lan?  

LTP

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Tinhlang can use any kind of weapons to protect herself.  

Trước đây cô ấy không hề chửi tục, nhưng họ tiếp tục bully cô ấy.

Nếu TV khuyên được họ không ức hiếp tinhlang nữa, lập tức tinhlang sẽ không dùng dirty words.
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Ý kiến hay!!!

(2019-12-07, 05:32 PM)tuyetvan Wrote: You still haven't answered my questions

What's wrong when asking her not to say dirty words?


How do you know it wouldn't affect other people?

:thinking-face4:

(2019-12-07, 05:32 PM)tuyetvan Wrote: You still haven't answered my questions

What's wrong when asking her not to say dirty words?


How do you know it wouldn't affect other people?

I already gave you the answer.

She used to be very nice to them. 

And there is nothing wrong with not using dirty words, except it won't work.  She just started using them recently.  It's her only weapon to protect herself against that group.

As soon as they're acting decently towards her, she won't use them.  I know that because I saw it before.

LTP

I was in the conflicts before

Does it mean I had to protect myself by using dirty words?

Do you think using bad words helps? How?

(2019-12-07, 05:32 PM)tuyetvan Wrote: You still haven't answered my questions

What's wrong when asking her not to say dirty words?


How do you know it wouldn't affect other people?

I have answered your question.

Let me answer your question in a different way. If you THINK it affects other people, then you can express your opinion, or raise your concern ONCE, TWICE, perhaps. If you keep saying the same thing over and over to the point you don't know how to stop, when it doesn't affect or direct at you, then you have sticked your nose where it doesn't belong.

You ask people to stop doing something then, in return, you need to stop bullying people yourself when they ask you to.

You can not control what other people do or say, so you need to learn to turn the other way when you already have had your say a million times.

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I have answered your question.

Let me answer your question in a different way. If you THINK it affects other people, then you can express your opinion, or raise your concern ONCE, TWICE, perhaps. If you keep saying the same thing over and over to the point you don't know how to stop, when it doesn't affect or direct at you, then you have sticked your nose where it doesn't belong.

You ask people to stop doing something then, in return, you need to stop bullying people yourself when they ask you to.

You can not control what other people do or say, so you need to learn to turn the other way when you already have had your say a million times.
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Ký tên,
Cười

1. I am a member of this forum. So if things happen in this forum, we all have the responsibility to make it right. I don't stick my nose where I don't belong

Are you a member of this forum? If you are not, then you are the one who stick your nose to where you don't belong



2. We have different ways to deal with things. Ok, if she wants to use dirty words, she should use it privately, then nobody complains. You know what I mean


3. I keep asking her not to use bad words publicly, I don't see anything wrong with that? You think it's wrong ? Why?