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I will take whatever is good 

For me, it's not like I don't have money but when it's free and discount, I would take it. By the way, I keep rotate visa cards for free tickets   They are greedy now like Chase Sapphire is 4 year for a new card after cancel. I cancel after a year and get a different one like Southwest, AA, United, and others.

Girls are complicate   One girl, I said no share account but allow to see statement of what I spend monthly, she refused. And another one refused because I want to manage the assets even I put her 100% on beneficiary.

Your cousins may work for county, city, or federal. Otherwise, the state 401k system is the same for everyone. I believe it's the second largest retirement system in US.

Speaking of boat people, anyone was poor and have no relatives had to eat anything they gave to you. Couldn't forget that I picked up dried fishes with maggots weekly where we had to washed again before cooking   It went on for 10 months like that on island. Money is just for fun   Co' nhieu xai bay nhieu, dung xai qua lo la duoc roi, va dung co phung phi.

Is this one of your conspiracy theories?
I'll temporarily name it "Placer mining gold," eh? It sounds like you're accumulating mileage rewards from credit cards, right? Would you elaborate on it? I am using a Master/Visa and receiving minimal cash-back rewards, but I have been traveling more lately and would consider getting mileage rewards instead. Please share if you find a good one.

Really? My observation of mature girls is that they are often compassionate, respectful, and fervently contribute to the success of their families; it doesn't matter who handles the money. The justification for those you call "Complicated girls" is that most would be ambitious to take the empowered positions in the house to satisfy their ego and pride. We're lucky to live in a civilized lifestyle country; why don't you set a commitment between the two of you that will give the other a bit of privacy/trust/loyalty, etc., as long as it is not going to destroy the interrelationship? There's no necessity to surveil others, even a minor thing that might ruin your happiness. Reiterate my previous theme colloquially: if you're manipulative with money issues like that, you'll not find true love who tags along for the rest of your life.

You may be right! The county of Sacramento is a fit choice. I heard the controversy on social networks about working for the government being no struggle but getting paid well. 

Have you left VietNam when still in your frolicked age? The costs of freedom and hope of advancement are high to pay; the majority of boat people were half-dead, in anguish, or turned to cannibalism for survival. Let's bury whatever nightmares in the past; trying to forget those terrifying moments and appreciate destiny led you to a well-endowed life. Yes, I'll ignore the temptation to splurge but embed your "Prioritize Needs Over Wants" philosophy.

Have a delightful weekend, brother.