[BrokeAssMillionaire]

I will take whatever is good 

For me, it's not like I don't have money but when it's free and discount, I would take it. By the way, I keep rotate visa cards for free tickets   They are greedy now like Chase Sapphire is 4 year for a new card after cancel. I cancel after a year and get a different one like Southwest, AA, United, and others.

Girls are complicate   One girl, I said no share account but allow to see statement of what I spend monthly, she refused. And another one refused because I want to manage the assets even I put her 100% on beneficiary.

Your cousins may work for county, city, or federal. Otherwise, the state 401k system is the same for everyone. I believe it's the second largest retirement system in US.

Speaking of boat people, anyone was poor and have no relatives had to eat anything they gave to you. Couldn't forget that I picked up dried fishes with maggots weekly where we had to washed again before cooking   It went on for 10 months like that on island. Money is just for fun   Co' nhieu xai bay nhieu, dung xai qua lo la duoc roi, va dung co phung phi.