(2021-03-04, 05:51 PM)DuyVIII Wrote: I don't see how such a situation to consider a good match.  If one likes dogs or cats and the other one doesn't like to deal with any of those pets at all, how can that be considered a good match for both people?  Personally, I don't see it being a so-call anyone's fault from either one of you; you guys are basically not a good match.  If I like a woman who has a dog, I wouldn't ask her to give it up because of me, and that's a selfish and unreasonable way to expect from someone whom I think I care about.

By the way, unlike Mr. Ech, I am not only the president of the single-men club but I am also a die-hard member of the club.

(2021-03-04, 05:08 PM)Phân Vân Wrote: Hello các ACE Chợ Trời.

Cho em xin hỏi .....  I know this guy for about a month now. We seem to match and like each other. The problem is I don't like dogs but he has dogs and doesn't want to give up his dogs if we live together. Question: should I or should I not continue the relationship?
ACE giúp ý kiến dùm em nhé, Thanks ACE rất nhiều .  

(2021-03-04, 05:08 PM)Phân Vân Wrote: Hello các ACE Chợ Trời.

Cho em xin hỏi .....  I know this guy for about a month now. We seem to match and like each other. The problem is I don't like dogs but he has dogs and doesn't want to give up his dogs if we live together. Question: should I or should I not continue the relationship?
ACE giúp ý kiến dùm em nhé, Thanks ACE rất nhiều .  

(2021-03-04, 07:54 PM)Hope Wrote: coi con chó như con riêng của bồ đi... eheheheheheheeh.. nhiều khi thân với nó nó sẽ thương và quấn quít với mình.. 

lỡ đẻ ra rồi nhét vào đâu được.. thôi thương anh vất vả làm ăn, thương con chó hộ anh.. ô kê dân chơi không sợ mưa rơi.. tới luôn đi đồng chí... 

(2021-03-04, 08:05 PM)DuyVIII Wrote: Sao cô biết người là dân chơi?  Mà ai nói là dân chơi không sợ mưa rơi?  Tôi cũng là dân chơi nè, nhưng không có nghĩa là tôi không sợ mưa to.

Do you have a dog or cat, Ms. Hope?  Well, in case you are wondering, my dog had died a long, long time ago.  So in case you happen to be interested in someone like me, there is one less thing to worry about, just a thought that's all.

(2021-03-04, 08:34 PM)DuyVIII Wrote: [quote pid='333609' dateline='1614907973']
Sorry, Ms. Hope..  I was just teasing you, and perhaps it makes you feel uncomfortable.  My bad! and probably bad timing as well.  I apologize for that.

(2021-03-04, 08:56 PM)Hope Wrote: Biết tìm hiểu người khác là dân chơi rồi... eheheheheheeh

I don't have any pets. So, technically, I would say "I don't see any future of you two" just like you, but.. I remember my aunt's case. Her husband passed away when she was pretty young. She was lonely, cried, and sad all the time. My cousin used her first paycheck as a nurse to buy her a dog, omg, my aunt was really upset because her house was extremely clean and she was a little difficult. She never liked messy and if you had a dog before you knew how your place was like. They both didn't talk to each other for 2 weeks long. My aunt never looked at the dog. In fact, she hated it so much. Now she had to take the reality that they lived together because my cousin was still single and lived there with her. Taking care of the little puppy was a lot of work and my aunt didn't want to do any extra work beside her job and the home. She liked her home quiet when she got home from work. She never wanted to look at her daughter either. 

So 2 weeks long passed, her daughter worked a lot from the hospitals and took care of the little puppy at home. She tried to train it quietly so it would not pee or bark loud when my aunt was home. The little dog seemed smart, he felt that the mom didn't like it, so he was scared of my aunt too.. êhehehehehheeheh... it was really funny... 

anyway, watching her daughter exhausted from work and rushed home to taking care of the dog suddenly changed my aunt. She knew her daughter worked really hard the past couple years in school. All she wanted to make my aunt happy, keep her busy  or companied, so she wouldn't sit down or lay down crying. I guess all moms' heart melt when seeing our kids are worn out. So my aunt start having a feeling for the dog.. little by little, eventually she had to do everything from cooking or giving foods, pooping, cleaning... ahahahhahahahaha... because my cousin worked 3 places she was hardly home or had energy to do much things at home. In return, the dog now feels protected by my aunt whenever they came to parties, and again she is the person who have to do everything like feeding, walking out with the dog.. kkkkkkkkkkkkk.. and they seem okay..

(2021-03-04, 09:10 PM)DuyVIII Wrote: Yeah, I believe such a story happened in many families, and I had also personally witnessed it myself.   Household pets like dogs and cats could be very emotionally comforting to humans and they are very loyal to their owner, more so than a human can possibly do sometimes.

Well, since I am in the mood for a conversation if you don't mind that I ask.. so how come you don't have a pet?  Why, are you somewhat like your aunt, perhaps?